From My Eyes

Define a date. 

Is it similar to mine?

"Two people getting together for an activity when the possibility of romance between them has been touched on, but not ruled out."

If so, I want you to continue reading and tell me if I am wrong or right. 

Here is my issue when it comes to relationships.

I feel that putting another girl/guy above your girl/guy IS NOT OKAY. Unless it is your famjam, it is not okay. 

NO WAY HOSE. 

Hanging out with your friends (you see that letter 's'? It makes things plural) that are of the opposite sex is totally okay! Absolutely! I mean, girls have guy friends they chill with as well as guys with their girl friends. Really no big deal there. 

Neither partner would care, at least in my eyes, unless you are ambiguous. 

Now that you are hiding something, they do have something to worry about, or else why would you be hiding it? 

MEANING! Saying you are going to hang out with a "friend" ALONE that your girl/guy does not know who they are IS NOT OKAY. 

Why are you ALONE with the opposite sex that your partner does not know about and why are you not being completely honest?? 

Better question. Why are you alone with the opposite sex, on basically a date, when you have a partner?

You okay with your partner being with someone else of the opposite sex that you don't know? Alone? 

REALLY THINK ABOUT IT. Why did you not tell your partner that you were going to be with "Vanessa", or with "Zack"???

Interesting how that plays out, eh? Seems like you have the ulterior motive.

Just some food for thought. 

It is simple to be honest. Simple to be straight up. Consider your partner more often, and consider how you'd feel if it were reversed.

Honesty & selflessness is what will lead to a good relationship. 

Maybe if you gave it a shot, you'd know that. 

Shay

PS enjoy my Canadianism.