Remembering can help answer those questions of "what if?" It can enlighten and help you realize the mistakes you have made. It can help guide our future choices by weighing in every factor we forgot as memories fade. It can shed light on incidents we shoved in a dark corner wanting to never recall again. It can change everything.
However, taking that trip back can be so painful. It can remind you of all the good that you once received, but are not receiving now. It can reopen wounds that were once completely healed. It can reawaken an addiction inside of you. Although this is true, you do not have to go there and become what you have already vowed to never become again. Even so, we can greet those memories, addictions, and failures as old friends. We can chat with them and part ways happily.
Closure is essential to ending any kind of event. It is becoming at ease with the fact that things are different now.
Find your time to heal and take all the time you need. There is no need to rush. It is okay to be sad. Finding that closure can help shape your future and remove any chances of wasting time running around in circles. With it, you can move forward.
Sometimes you feel a plethora of emotions and do not know how to deal with all. Receiving the necessary closure will help you channel those emotions into happiness.
You deserve to be happy. Life is too short to dwell on all those things we have lost, but take your time to become you again. Take that trip down memory lane, but once you are done, do not go back again.
There are so many more lessons to learn and they will only be found in the future.
Cheers, good friends. It is a beautiful life.
Shay
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